Jealously rears its ugly head in a lot of people especially females.Everyone feels jealous at some point in their life, but this should not be an everyday habit. I understand that many of us want to improve ourselves both physically and mendally. And while doing this we compare ourselves to the person that we wanna be, or sometimes it's the person we wanna compete with. The person we wanna prove something to, the person we wanna be better than. We need to stop comparing and stop competing. Don't look at someone with envy or hatred because they are different than you. Instead we should accept and embrace the differences. Don't try to be anyone else just be who you are. Do what you love, wear what you wanna wear, don't change for anyone! What if someone else is comparing you to another girl? Stay as far away from them as possible! People like that are only going to bring you down, don't even waste a second of your time being a party to that. Remember that you can't change people, you can only change yourself and how you handle the situation. If anyone says anything to try to bring you down just laugh about it and act like you don't care even if deep down you kind of do. From what I've found out in the past is that if you act like its funny and it doesn't bother you, and they're not getting the reaction that they wanted to get out of you. They usually will drop it. Drop it like its hot lol. Ok I'm a dork but whatever you get the idea:) When I was younger I used to really look up to my one older sister. I thought that she was the shit. I thought she knew everything about everything and I wanted to be just like her. But as I got older I realized that I wasn't like her. I was me. I'm not an outgoing singer like my sister, and I'm not the super skinny girl that can eat whatever she wants and not gain an ounce while doing it. I'm not the tough girl that doesn't take any crap from anyone and that everyone's afraid of. I'm not the big party girl that loves going to the bar and drinks like a fish with a cigarette in one hand and a beer bottle in the other. I'm not the girl who shops at Hot Topic with dyed green hair who's covered in tattoos and piercings. Although there was a time when I wanted to be each one of these other girls I realized that's just not me. I'm the sweet girlie girl, who loves make up and dresses. I'm the girl who would rather stay home and read a book than to go out to a bar all night. I'm the girl who still laughs at the same movies even though I've seen them a thousand times. I'm the girl who enjoys taking classes and learning new things. I'm the girl who loves pearls and wearing white even though I'm really clumsy. I'm the girl who hates fighting so much that I'm always the first to apologize. I'm the girl that loves cooking and baking and even enjoys cleaning too. I'm the girl who hates sports. I'm the girl who gets excited over little things. That's just me:) whoever you are just be you and be happy. Even if someone doesn't like you the best revenge you can have is to just be happy in your life and not even caring about what they think or that they even exist.
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