My Beautiful Readers: Tonight I'm going to be talking about something that I feel very strongly about. People who talk about you behind your back. Now I don't care how nice you are, or how pretty you are people are going to talk about you in a negative way and there's nothing you can do to stop them. You can't change people or how they think, or what they do. You can only change yourself and how you handle the situation. You may wonder why people are even talking badly about you in the first place, especially when you know you are a nice person, and haven't done anyway to them to give them a reason to say anything anyway. The answer to this question is simple: When a person feels the need to talk badly about someone for no reason it's usually because they are jealous of them in some way. If someone is talking trash about you they either want to be you, want something you have, think you have a better life than they do, or feel threaten by you in some way. Now I know what you're thinking, because everyone gossips all the time, but that doesn't always mean that they are jealous. It is one thing to say something about how a person treated you, if they were mean or rude to you for no reason at all. Like for example if you went to get your blood taken and the girl that worked there was really unprofessional, and rude to you the whole time, so you decided to tell your friends and family about it to warn them not to go there. Or if you know someone who is a friend of a friend and every time you see them they have to say something condescending to you. So when they finally leave you're all "What the Hell is their problem?" That's different, I'm talking about people who are nice, and give you no reason to say anything bad, but still get talked about- That's when you know it's jealousy. Just remember: Just because someone says something mean about you- that doesn't make it true! People feel bad about themselves and they don't want you to be happy, so they try to bring you down too. All you have to do is be happy and don't worry about them or what they think. Act like you don't even care, even if you do care fake it until you don't have to fake it anymore:-) Life is too short to worry about stupid high school drama. Some times you just got to be the bigger person and let things go.
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Hello my readers:) It's me again, and this blog is all about moving and how to get ready for a move. I am moving in with my boyfriend in about 2 and 1/2 weeks and there's still a lot of stuff that I have to do. So far we have picked out the apartment that we wanted, filled out the application to get it, paid the security deposit, gone furniture shopping, made a list of everything that we needed, got a ton of boxes, and started to pack some stuff already.
The important thing is to not wait to do everything at the last minute. We still have to call about the cable/internet bill, figure out when to get the furniture delivered, get our address changed on everything, and finish packing up our stuff. It's a lot but here are some tips to help it go a little easier: #1. Start early! Do not put everything off until the last minute. Start packing some things that you don't need to use on a day to day basis. For example I have already packed up all my movies, winter clothes, books, and old birthday/holiday cards that people have giving me that I just can't seem to throw away. #2. Do not take anything you really aren't going to use or need! Ok it is one thing to bring along things that are meaningful to you like pictures, and cards, and yearbooks etc... but don't go crazy! Try to keep those things to just one tiny box, label it 'Memories' and keep it in a closet. If you bring too much stuff with you, your new place may look like there's too much clutter around, and you don't want that. #3. Throw a lot of things away! This part isn't easy, but it must be done. It's time to go through everything that you own and decide what comes with you, what you want to give away, and what you want to throw away. I have gone through my stuff several times and I throw more, and more stuff away every time. I give a lot away too. All my clothes or shoes that I no longer want, or just don't really wear anymore, but are still in decent condition I always donate them. #4 Get Organized! Go through everything. Make sure every box is labeled correctly, and pack things away in a neat order so that when you unpack them it's not like you are going through a ton of boxes to try to find one thing. Hope these tips will help anyone who will be moving out soon. Thanks for reading :- |
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